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Fairfield Museum is site for swift wedding

Guys, I've seen this article just now:

A Valentine's Day wedding at the Fairfield Museum and History Center on the Town Green

proved once again that there is a first time for everything.
"We've never had a wedding here," said Holly Hamilton, visitor services manager for the

museum, which opened at 370 Beach Road last September.

It was the big day for Donna Marie Anderson, a stay-at-home mom, and her man, Larry Witte, a

corporate executive in New York City.

The couple moved to the Black Rock section of Bridgeport from California last year, and

after a number of years together and a 4-year-old son, Brennan, they decided to tie the knot

on Valentine's Day.

"We thought it was romantic," Donna Marie said.

The couple got their license at Fairfield Town

Hall Thursday morning, and asked where to find a justice of the peace.
"It's amazing how fast you can get married in Connecticut. It's faster than Las Vegas,"

Donna Marie said.

They found a justice of the peace downtown, not far from Town Hall, at Diamond Jewelers.

"I've done weddings everywhere. I would have married them on the beach," said Howard

Diamond, the store's owner.

The couple asked Diamond what a good warm location would be for their brief ceremony, and he

suggested the new museum.

Then, Donna Marie put on the white satin Celtic-style gown she had purchased three years

ago, for a wedding plan that was delayed by logistical complications.

This time around, they kept it simple. Hamilton acted as the couple's witness.

The marital vows took place in the subtle light of the museum's library room, next to bay

windows that showed the darkness outside. It was 6:30 p.m. when Diamond pronounced them

husband and wife and invited them to share their first married kiss, the groom in a black

tuxedo.

The cameras flashed and the couple beamed. Their son danced a little dance of happiness

around their feet.

The honeymoon is undecided.

"There are a lot of nice places we can go," Witte said, explaining how it will be a family

honeymoon with Brennan in tow.

Tony Spinelli, who covers the region for ConnPost.com, can be reached at 330-6361.

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Conventional relationships leave students wanting more

I only have one comment on relationships, but it doesn't include this:

When my alarm sounds in the mornings, I wake and slide my boots on my sheets-softened feet and walk two inches taller to class. I return to my sheets where that extra two inches of confidence is sloughed off; a time when one becomes susceptible to the loneliness that comes when naked feet obtain warmth from sheets and not other naked feet.

This is the stuff of lonesome times so easily arising in our hungry, adolescent soul searching, when we want the comfort of a partner or miss the presence of a long-distance lover. Being in a committed relationship is something that most of us want to experience in our time here, and monogamy is something that has been placed on a pedestal since the beginning of religiously sanctioned unions. But now we must deny the whole idea of “finding true love” and “soul mates” and question if humans truly are inherently monogamous.

David Barash and Judith Eve Lipton co-wrote the book “The Monogamy Myth: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People.” They argue, “Monogamists are going against some of the deepest-seated evolutionary inclinations with which biology has endowed most creatures, Homo sapiens included.” Through study of monogamy in the animal kingdom (which is very rare, according to Barash and Lipton) and patterns in which men and women wander from monogamous relationships, we are obligated to give attention to the idea that monogamy is our own creation, and this is why it concerns us so greatly.

According to the National Center for Health Statistics, the last reported divorce rate for a calendar year is 38 percent in 2005. We are all aware of this high rate, exemplified in some cases by the genuine interest and intrigue exhibited when one says that their parents are still together. Is this evidence in defense of the idea that we are not meant to be monogamous? “Hooking up” is not a new term, and author Laura Sessions Stepp (author of “Unhooked”) suggests that women “hook up,” or engage in some sort of non-emotional, sexual act, because women are increasingly goal-oriented in their professional lives and believe that a non-committed “hook up” would not obstruct their ambitions.

When a good friend of mine, an insightful English major, was asked to give a definition of monogamy, he wrote: monogamy-1) a state of being, not unlike marriage, resulting from idiot religiosity; 2) two lovers lacking imagination, curable by direct application of grain alcohol at an office party.”

Essentially everyone dreams of soul mate or perfect match, but now is the time for us to tell those standard images of monogamy like beach weddings and Hawaii honeymoons to screw off. Thanks to my spirited friend for personifying my point, which comes to: monogamy stems from historically held social norms that, in the end, create a path that we end up believing is the only one to true happiness. Monogamy is not something built into our DNA, but rather a convention of comfort that we turn to because we all want to be loved, and because it is so ingrained in us that we cannot imagine a life of happiness without a mate.

I believe that monogamous relationships are successful for people because they believe in them, and that they can work for the young adult who accepts their benefits as truths. Do not cheapen the importance of your own happiness by assuming that you can only find it only in another pair of arms. Not all “hook-ups” must be without emotion, not all relationships must imply long-term commitment and self-sacrifice, and self-love is the most important variety of love.

I am not encouraging rampant bed-hopping, but rather for you to be open to something other than “settling down” once you find who you think is that solitary special someone. Grab hold of those lonely thoughts and take them for something more than “nobody loves me” dribble. Love is not just another pair of feet in your bed, and life can still be pretty good with all of that extra mattress space.

Now, see my point?